My grandmother used to have to physically pick her leg up to get it into the car. I didn't understand it as a kid. I thought it was funny, and I figured it was just because she was overweight. I had no idea what I was really looking at.
I thought hip replacement surgery was an old person's surgery. I was embarrassed when I found out I needed one. Then I started talking about it, and I found out there are people in their 40s having hip replacements too.
That became my own reality. I've had hip replacement surgery. My mom has had knee replacement surgery. And when I really think back on it, I've been having these pains since I was a teenager, I just didn't know what it was. I was raised on "seen and not heard," so I never felt comfortable telling anyone what was happening in my body. That silence didn't protect me from anything. It just meant nobody caught it sooner.
Arthritis is not an old person's issue. Staying quiet about joint pain when you're young just means it goes unaddressed for years.
